Being in a relationship or being in love is not easy. Some people believe two people are meant to be together for a night and others for a lifetime. But, if you find yourself in a relationship that feels like a flickering flame, there are ways to get it back on track and learn how to rekindle love that you felt from the start. How to rekindle love and light your relationship up again.

1. Never go a day without telling them you love them. I rarely told my first husband that I loved him. Sometimes we just assume they know by the fact that you are still around. But, hearing I love you is food for the soul. After his death, I made a promise never to go more than a day without telling someone how I feel. I realized if you do not say it, you cannot assume they know. And, you never want anyone to go without knowing what is in your heart.

2. Be grateful for what they do instead of taking it for granted. Daily life gets in the way, and we assume our partner does their thing and you do yours, and that is the way it is. Truthfully, you cannot take things someone does for granted or it is difficult to maintain loving feeling for someone. If you think they do not appreciate you or all that you do, you start seeing them in a different and less loving light and vice versa. Say thank you for the small and big things, so they always know your gratitude for them and their love.

4. Take a no-clothes vacation. Whether you have kids or not, it is easy to forget you are sexual beings and in need of human touch and contact. If you feel a little skin hunger, take a vacation away and spend it naked. Go ahead and go to dinner, but promise that it is no-clothes when you get home. Just putting skin on skin makes those sexual juices flow again.

3. Do not go to bed angry, have makeup sex, and then go to bed. That old phrase “do not ever go to bed angry” has a lot of people staying up into the wee-hours of the morning being angry and damaging relationships. Instead of fighting it out, sometimes it is better to be happy than right. Instead of hashing it out all night, agree to disagree about silly things and skip straight to the makeup sex. I promise you that you will feel much better in the morning. You will definitely not be as tired.

5. Even if you are not in the mood, a blow job is like sending flowers. Sometimes it is important to do something just for the other person whether you are in the mood or not. If you do not feel like having sex due to a bad day, do not reject their needs. Spend some time making them feel good, and they will return the feeling.

6. Be spontaneous. Day to day sucks! If you want to rekindle love then be adventurous the way you used to be. Show up at their work to take them away for the day or buy tickets to their favorite concert. Do new and exciting things to keep your relationship new and exciting.

7. Do not fear rejection. During the course of a relationship, you are bound to build up some resentment, hurt and anger. Most of them stem from rejection. Do not stop touching, being yourself, or being playful for fear they will not join in. If you try to break down the wall, eventually they let go and join in. Someone has to make the first move. So, be the first one to put yourself out there from rejection and pray for the opposite.occo Holidays

8. Look through past pictures and hang them as a reminder. Pictures are a great way to remind us how we used to be before the mess of a relationship and life entered in. Hang kissing, smiling photos of you to remind you who you used to be.

9. Make each other a priority again. It is easy to stop feeling loving when you feel like you are last on someone’s list. Make your partner your number one. They will do the same for you. Loving someone means making your partner the focus of your life and happiness.

10. Try to find the you they fell in love with. If you gained 20 pounds, then maybe it is time to examine why and get back to you. Instead of focusing on how to rekindle love in your relationship, rekindle the love you had for yourself. The rest will follow, I promise.

11. A little naughtiness never hurt. Yep, being naughty is essential to being a playful and sexual being. Do not ever stop being just a little naughty and a whole lot playful.

12. Laugh and laugh at yourselves again. Laughter is essential when it comes to knowing how to rekindle love. Without laugher, it is hard to find any happiness in life or feel love toward one another. Spend some time laughing together.

13. Stop rehashing and promise to move forward. Get off the blame coaster. Whatever happened in the past, leave it in the past. If you continually kick up the dust of hurt, you will not ever get back to the lusting and loving couple you were when you first laid eyes on one another.

14. Have day sex. If you used to have rendezvous sex, start them up again. Sex does not have to be in bed or late at night. We can all find time for a quickie anywhere, anytime. Just be creative and be those crazy kids that took chances.

15. Spend Sunday naked in bed again. When was the last time you closed the world away and just laid naked in bed together? It is time to get back there. Screw your Sunday plans and obligations. Obligate yourself to one another.

16. Focus on their sexual needs instead of your own. If you want to truly understand how to rekindle love again, put your partner’s needs and wants first. It is sometimes better to give than receive. Next time, you will be on the receiving end.

17. Listen to their actions. There are all sorts of ways they likely tell you things. Listen to their actions, not their words. Maybe you will see you do not have to rekindle, but simply listen harder.

18. It is not just about the bedroom. Rekindling means better communication, more concern, and support, and finding the you, you used to be, before all the mess of life crept in on all fronts and accounts. Let your lives stop clouding your love.

19. Be a united front and prioritize each other. Again, do not take one another for granted. Make sure your partner knows kids and friends come second. Your partner should always be your number one. If you want to stay a couple and be a loving one going forward, put your partner first always in actions and words.

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